Time to Say Goodbye…

Readers, fear not. The Rich Freggiaro Cycling Blog isn’t going anywhere. There is plenty of lunacy around for material.

But today’s blog is not about lunacy. It’s a love story, expressed as shared experiences and effort getting ourselves from Point A to Point B using our own power. And creating some of the best memories of our marriage

We started tandem riding in 2005, on a very mediocre bike that a friend wasn’t using and offered to loan us. After a couple of months we bought that Cannondale from him. Our first big ride was the local Giro ‘d Vino, back when it was a metric century (62 miles) with more riding and less sipping than now. We had been doing some rides with the Stockton Bike Club, where we could survive without getting too far behind most of the time. So this ride came as a shock. There were lots of casual cyclists on the road and for the first time, I found myself saying ‘On your left’ as we passed other riders.

We became convinced that riding together was something we wanted to do, so I knew we deserved a better bike. And we got one: a CoMotion Supremo, made in Oregon. We took delivery in 2006, and over the next 15 years put over 30,000 miles on it. It weighed about 33 lbs. , something like 12 fewer that the Cannondale it replaced, And it had much faster wheels. Diane picked out the paint scheme, a 3 color fade from black to pewter to silver. Of course that was the most expensive paint option; Stoker likes nice stuff.

We became semi regulars on Club rides. We pedaled up Stoney Creek Road. Once. I decided I wanted to stay married. We did Ram’s Horn Grade. Once. Ditto. We climbed the Calaveras Road Wall outside of Milpitas. Once. Double ditto. But loops out of Ione or Wallace were regular training rides for us.

Training for what? Cycle tours. We rode down the entire Oregon Coast. We rode in Death Valley. Rode in the Arizona Desert and to the Mexican border. We did rides in Solvang. And we rode from Glacier, Montana to Jasper through the Canadian Rockies. Up the 10 mile climb of Going to the Sun Road. And over the 25 mile slog up Highwood Pass, the highest paved road (elevation 7,250) in Canada.

We rode a rented tandem in France for 5 days in 2015. That went so well we did 2 weeks in 2016, and then rented a house in Malaucene for an entire month from 2017 until 2019. We rode rental tandems in France and left the CoMotion home. Breaking down a tandem for international shipment was beyond me.

In May 2019 in France, we had our best month ever. 17 rides, 450 miles and 29,000 feet through the hills of Provence. We were strong and it seemed that we could do this for a long while yet. It turned out to be our last hurrah.

We started 2020 getting ready for another trip to France, but Covid stopped that. We cut back on our riding; there didn’t seem to be much point. The Club rides were stopped so it was just Diane and me, with no social interaction at all.

Even when Covid was lifted we didn’t go back to riding. Health issues, nervousness on the pilot’s part, a decline in the watts we could put out. Getting the CoMotion up any hill was always a challenge for us both, and I know my power numbers aren’t really up to it any more.

We fell out of the riding habit completely. It turned out that our very last tandem ride was on Halloween, 2021. We did a slow 21 miles to The Fruit Bowl. Trick or treat!

Since then the CoMotion has been hanging in our garage, gathering dust. Unridden and unloved. A reminder of what we did together and what we can no longer do. I’m only a little melancholy about it. Life goes on, we still have each other and most of our health. And a thousand incredible memories.

I started asking people I know if they were interested in the bike. I didn’t have a lot of hope. A few people said maybe. But then two really good friends and strong cyclists expressed interest, and I got excited. They actually have a tandem and had done some riding together, but their bike is a semi truck and the CoMotion is a Ferrari by comparison. Their first test rides convinced them that if I didn’t want the bike, they would be happy to give her a good home.

I didn’t take any money for the CoMotion. Doing that seemed to be a ’30 pieces of silver’ betrayal to me. I did suggest that my friends could make a donation to a charity Diane and I support, and they did so. Now they own the CoMotion and I can see them ride it occasionally on club rides.

So Stoker’s stoking days are over, but she will always be Stoker to me. Pedaling and smiling.

6 thoughts on “Time to Say Goodbye…

  1. Rich, such an interesting column, with a heady sense of melancholy. My wife and I are a bit older than you two, and Susan decided she wasn’t going to ride any longer about two years ago, so we just donated her bike to a Junior high school bike club in Rancho Cordova.

    On July 6 last year, riding with two friends from Spokane, I took a bad spill on the American River Bike Trail, suffering a pretty serious concussion and fractured wrist, two days in intensive care and, months later, my balance is about three times worse than it used to be, so I have not ridden since July.

    What I failed to mention, we moved up to Rancho Cordova six years ago, and I started attending regular monthly interest group meeting with agencies that cared about the American River, heard Los of discussion about safety concerns on the bike trail and proposed a bike patrol to help make the trail friendlier and safer.

    Since, we founded the American River Bike Patrol five years ago, now with 120 members, covering trails in three counties, Folsom Lake and Auburn State Recreation Areas and hopefully bringing a much needed sense of family security to the American River trail system.

    That’s been fun, and I can continue as the organization’s board secretary and an admin/hiking patroller in my current condition. Interestingly, our urban bike patrol start-up plan has been copied and used by new urban patrols in Half Moon Bay, and the newest patrol (just getting underway) in Bakersfield – it’s nice to be cloned! We are part of the National Ski and Bike Patrol system, and you’ll find more insight at: americanriverbikepatrol.org.

    At any rate, I enjoyed your article and certainly appreciate the life changes we go through as we can get into our “upper maturity years”.

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  2. Great article as usual Rich. Life changes in different seasons. The most we can do is enjoy each season and what it has to offer us.

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  3. Hi Rich & Diane! Something drew me to your blog today and I was remembering the many times we rode our Co-Motion near you and Diane, until we moved to Sacramento in 2017. I was wondering if you two were still at it & it was bittersweet to read your “goodbye” post. It’s much the same for us. We still have our tandem and ride it occasionally – especially during camping trips – but I have arthritis in my hands now, and that has limited my rides. Meanwhile, Al is out almost daily with his cycling pals up here, on the bike trail. But our many hours & many miles together on the tandem are a precious part of our years together. So many memories! And you & Diane were great role models for me. Warm regards to you both! Cindy & Al

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