On Friday morning I did what some people consider my civic duty: I got a flu shot and a covid shot. The CDC recommends getting both at the same time. I didn’t read all the disclaimers in the pieces of paper they handed me, but I’m sure they mentioned lots of side effects. As I learned…
By Friday at bed time, which comes early on Brumby Road, I wasn’t doing so well. I had a mild headache. I had a low grade fever. Chills and body aches. I got a fever blister on my lip, a sure sign that I was dealing with some kind of viral infection. And of course my arm felt like they had left a needle in there.

All smiles at first…give it a couple of hours
Friday night was awful. I woke up every hour, shivering and with a raging thirst. On Saturday morning I took Luke for his walk. I did the whole normal route which usually takes about 45 minutes. Yesterday it was over an hour. When I finally returned Stoker said she was starting to worry.
For the rest of the day the symptoms continued. I moved from a day long nap on the couch in my office to an evening on the living room couch flipping between college football games. I was completely out of energy all day and thinking about one of my favorite passages to describe the misery of ill health…
Let’s talk of graves, of worms, and epitaphs.
Make dust our paper and with rainy eyes
Write sorrow on the bosom of the earth.
Let’s choose executors and talk of wills.
And yet not so, for what can we bequeath
Save our deposed bodies to the ground?
Now that is some fine blank verse poetry, even if a white male did write it. It is apropos when you are feeling awful and thinking that ‘bequeathing your deposed body to the ground’ seems like an excellent idea.
Today I feel a little better, at least well enough to write this. But guess what? This week Stoker and I are going to ‘talk of wills’ for real. And maybe a trust, depending on what the estate planning attorney recommends.

On Saturday I thought I might need one of these sooner that expected
For years I thought our simple will was adequate for our needs. Everything we own is either held as ‘joint tenant’ or in a beneficiary account (like an IRA). In the latter case each of us is the 100% beneficiary of the other. None of those assets are subject to probate. We had a will drawn up by a paralegal which made it clear that each of us left everything to the other, and in the unlikely event we both died at the same time there were previsions to keep the real estate in my family, and bequeath the rest in what we consider an equitable manner.
We set all that up almost 30 years ago, and enough things have changed that I decided to consult a professional and try to do things right. And there are some issues like ‘durable power of attorney’ and ‘advanced care directive’ that we haven’t addressed. So on Wednesday we are going to work on ‘bequeathing’.
The attorney’s office gave me a 50 page worksheet to fill out before our consultation. One question is “What are your primary goals in estate planning”? I wish I knew.
Figuring out what to do with real estate and financial assets is relatively easy, but what about the other stuff? We have some really nice blown glass, and some TV Tommyvision works that might not be valuable but are quite wonderful to us. There is some fancy china and some really nice wine gla$$e$. What about my inventory of bikes? Granted they aren’t really current state of the art, but they are still very nice machines that deserve to be ridden and appreciated by someone. There are two genuine Wassily chairs that Diane and the internet seem to think are somewhat valuable.
One thing for sure, my nephew Tony gets first dibs on the 6 foot tall leather giraffe in our foyer. We’ll try to eliminate any arguments over the chairs on Wednesday.

Very similar to the pair in our living room
















